With our constant connection we can receive a push in many ways.
Without being able to push ourselves forward we will not be able to achieve the things we have set forth.
Our society is consistently challenged by the need of outside permission to be and give our best.
Bringing clarity to our desires will help those on the outside to better judge how much guidance can be given while also igniting self discovery.
It is harder when we don’t know what we are after because then the push from outside or inside will be a waste.
An uncertainty arises as to what path we should go down when there are too many options out there.
Since we are aware that there were other options, people might turn around and go left or right instead of the straight path they originally selected because it got hard.
Naturally, most do not prefer hard.
The tricky part with this approach is that we will inevitably reach a hard part and that is why we need to pick the road we truly find the most enjoyment from. What happens is that we learn to enjoy/embrace the hard!
Finding your passion or purpose are all sayings that are heard daily by society however do we take the time to find it and be honest with what that passion is?
Maybe some need to answer the question why am I doing this? And am I willing to persevere through the tough times for it.
If the answer is no then it makes the decision making simple, just don’t go down that path.
With this decision, we can now look at our next path and ask the same question.
Sometimes the best push is the fact that there are no options and what is pushing us is the fact that if we do not go forward we’ll go backwards.
Yours in soccer,