A good goal is to influence rather than search for power and control.
It is always a losing game with false expectations when attempting to control or enforce everything that we want to happen.
Control and organization is important as a base however progress is made through problem solving and decision-making.
If we stifle this we will only go backwards as the problems won’t stop coming.
Control what is necessary defined personally, while allowing areas of freedom for the surprises to occur. Good and bad.
Yours in soccer,